Kristen, you state that you have to ask her out on a date. What happens when the good Calvinist woman suddenly turns into an Arminian and exercises her "free will" to say no?
First rule for attracting women: be mysterious. You're already working that one by simply not revealing your identity (although I have my suspicions).
Second rule for attracting women: show an interest. You won't get far unless you actually indicate to the girl in question that you think she is pretty gosh darn awesome.
Extra advice: try showing up at her house with flowers...
I was reminded this evening of an analogy for attracting women. A wise man once said women are like raccoons...dangle something shiny in front of them and they will come to you. There you have it.
Wow maybe instead of Dear Abby we should do Dear Anonymous. It certainly sounds intriguing. I could have a lot of fun with that.
Dear Anonymous, You can take it one of two ways...a) she is missing out or b)Give yourself more credit. Be bold & ask. "Free will" also involves a yes. I daresay the best answer is b).
Dear Anonymous, I find that when wooing a Cute Calvinist it best to mention: 1.) My utter depravity without her company 2.) Our predestined introduction 3.) That my interest is in her and her alone 4.) Her irresistibility 5.) She can do nothing to lose my affection
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do you have any suggestions on how to attract/catch miss right?
You might want to check out Online Dating for Calvinists.
Take tips from Mr. Wonderful...
http://www.christianitytoday.com/men/newsletter/2003/cmn31010.html
http://stuck-on-you.com/mr.html
Oh I forgot to mention to obvious... ask her out on a date.
laurie, have you recently heard any analogies that might help me better understand this whole attracting women thing?
Kristen, you state that you have to ask her out on a date. What happens when the good Calvinist woman suddenly turns into an Arminian and exercises her "free will" to say no?
Dear Anonymous,
First rule for attracting women: be mysterious. You're already working that one by simply not revealing your identity (although I have my suspicions).
Second rule for attracting women: show an interest. You won't get far unless you actually indicate to the girl in question that you think she is pretty gosh darn awesome.
Extra advice: try showing up at her house with flowers...
Dear Anonymous,
I was reminded this evening of an analogy for attracting women. A wise man once said women are like raccoons...dangle something shiny in front of them and they will come to you. There you have it.
Wow maybe instead of Dear Abby we should do Dear Anonymous. It certainly sounds intriguing. I could have a lot of fun with that.
Dear Anonymous,
You can take it one of two ways...a) she is missing out or b)Give yourself more credit. Be bold & ask. "Free will" also involves a yes. I daresay the best answer is b).
"Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus..."
Dear Anonymous,
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Dear Anonymous,
I find that when wooing a Cute Calvinist it best to mention:
1.) My utter depravity without her company
2.) Our predestined introduction
3.) That my interest is in her and her alone
4.) Her irresistibility
5.) She can do nothing to lose my affection
There's no denying that=)
i know just the calvinest to try those on...thanks daniel
oops, i misspelled calvinist
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